Dua is defined as any invocation or prayer addressed to Allah (Subhana
al Taalla). In our times, we find many reasons why people do not make Dua; we forget, don't know how, or just do not think it will be answered. Fundamental to this is the loss of
dependence and trust upon Allah. As Muslims there is something very wrong when we believe our Duas won't be answered.
We do not turn to Allah in our times of need and instead put our trust, dependence and hopes on worldly things that we think will
help us. Although these temporal things are the means through which our Duas can be answered, the root of our being should be
trained automatically to turn to Allah and not anything or anyone else. Through Dua, we strengthen our Imaan and our
relationship with Allah, as well as heighten our awareness of cause and effect that can help inspire and motivate us to be
closer to Islam in our lives.
We find many reassurances throughout the Quran for those who make Dua. Allah the Exalted, has said: "And your
Lord says: Pray unto me: and I will hear your prayer" (Quran 40:60), "Call upon your Lord Humbly and in secret" (Quran 7:55),
"When My servants question thee concerning Me, I am indeed close (to them): I listen to the prayer of every suppliant when he
calleth on Me" (Quran
2:186), "Is not He (best) who listens to the (soul) distressed when it calls on Him, and who relieves its
suffering." (Quran 27:62)
Aisha radhiallaahu anha said, "No believer makes Dua and it is wasted. Either it is granted here in this world
or deposited for him in the Hereafter as long as he does not get frustrated."
In fact, it is even wrong to never make Dua, "Whosoever does not supplicate to Allah, He will be angry with Him."
[Saheeh Jaami`as-Sagheer #2414]
A Hadith says "Ad-Du'aa Huwal-3ibaadah",[Abu Dawud,at-Tirmidhi, Hasan Saheeh], Dua is Ibadah so calling
upon anyone other than Allah in one's Dua is Shirk. This is an important condition of having one's Dua accepted; the Dua
should not be directed to other than Allah alone. A second condition would be sincerity or Hudoor alqalb, having the heart
present. Also, one's food, drink, clothes and lifestyle should be Halal. One should avoid unlawful, impious or forbidden
sources or means of livelihood. Fourth, one cannot ask for something sinful or Haram. Dua should not be made against
family and property (i.e. to sever the ties of kinship).
If one asks Allah to curse someone, it rises up to heaven and goes to the person if they are deserving, if
not it returns to the person supplicating. Patience is another condition. This perseverance in making Dua is important. One
should not say "Why hasn't Allah answered my Dua" or "I have prayed and prayed so many times, but the same was not accepted"
and then become disappointed and give up praying. An example of this is like a person who planted a seed or a sapling, and kept
looking after it and watering it and when its complete shape and height was slow in coming, they left it and forgot about it.
Lastly one should have expectation, belief with certainty only Allah can answer the Dua. Understanding
dependence on Allah and asking with absolute resolve and believing with certainty that one's Dua will be answered is a
also a condition of acceptance. One should not say "O Allah do this...if you wish..." because one should appeal to Allah with
determination, for nobody can force Allah to do something against his Will. If one
fulfills these conditions, Allah will
definitely answer the Dua, avert some equivalent evil or give better in the Hereafter.
We can and should make Dua in every condition, i.e. in hardship and in prosperity. There are also some special
times to make Dua where it is more likely to be accepted:
1. When one is oppressed
2. Between the time of Athan and Iqama
3. At the time of the call for prayer
4. At the time of fighting when warriors are engaged with each other
5. When it is raining
6. When one is sick
7. The last third of the night
8. Ramadan (especially Lailatul Qadr )
Sura Qadar
9. After the Fard part of prayer
10. When traveling
11. When breaking fast
12. In Sujood
13. Fridays, some say on Friday after Asr prayer
14. While drinking the water from the well of Zamzam
15. At the start of prayer (Dua of Istiftah)
16. When one begins the prayer, i.e. with "all praise be to Allah, the Pure and the Blessed one"
17. While one recites al-Fatiha (which is a Dua)
18. When Ameen is said in the prayer (also relating to Fatiha)
19. At the time of raising the head after the
Ruckoo
20. In the last part of the prayer after conveying blessings unto the Prophet (SAW)
21. Before finishing the prayer (before Tasleem (saying the
Salaam to the angels))
22. At the end of Wudu
23. On the day of Arafah
24. On waking up from sleep
25. At times of adversity
26. Prayer after the death of a person
27. Dua when someone's heart is filled with sincerity and when it is focused on Allah
28. Dua of the parent against or for his children
29. When the sun moves from its meridian but before the Dhuhr prayer
30. The Dua of a Muslim for his brother without the latter's knowledge
31. At the time the army advances to fight in the way of Allah.
Dua can be beautified and perfected by certain actions:
1. Have Wudu, face Qibla, be neat and clean
2. Raise both hands up to the shoulder with palms open facing up
3. Use words of Allah and Muhammad (SAW)-
i.e. Duas found in Quran and Hadith
4. Ask by Asma al Husna- Allah's Beautiful Names
5. Ask Allah by your good deeds
6. Be insistent-repeat (i.e. 3x's)
7. Glorify Allah and recite Durud for the Prophet (SAW) at both the beginning and end
8. Show humility, entreaty, desire and fear while making Dua
9. Repent and try to make amends where one has wronged
10. Confess mistakes, shortcomings, and sins
11. Keep voice between a whisper and speaking aloud
12. Show the need for Allah's help and implore Him for release from weakness, hardship and tribulation.
13. Seize the opportunity of time, situation and circumstance in which prayers are answered
14. Avoid rhymed prose to keep concentration
15. Crying when making Dua
16. The Dua of Dhun-Nun (Yunus) by which he invoked Allah from within the belly of the whale was:
"LAa ilaha illa Anta, Subhanaka innee kuntu min aDH-DHaalimeen." No Muslim ever makes Dua with it but Allah answers it." [at tirmidhi in his sunan, ahmad and hakim reported it and hakim declared it authentic and adh dhahabee agreed]
17. End with "Alhamdulillah Rabbil alameen"
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We should ask for Dunya things, but not just for the sake of Dunya itself and for Akhirah things. We should
not ask for punishment to be brought forward in this world or for early death. We should not curse any particular human being
or animal, abuse a Muslim for no reason, abuse dead people without cause and religious excuse, or abuse fever or the wind.
We should not make Dua by saying we have been given rain by this or that star or what Allah willed, and so and so willed. We
should not make Dua against family and property or for sinful acts and severing the bonds.
In the end there can be reasons why the Dua might not be answered such as not fulfilling conditions like some of
the ones listed above or: Divine Wisdom, trying to hurry the response of one's Dua, Dua for what is sinful or the breaking
off of relations, eating, drinking, or dressing from what is Haram, not being resolute in making Dua, abandoning the duty of
enjoining what is good and shunning the evil, the dominance of
unmindful ness, lust and vain desires, not being submissive
during Salaah, or committing particular sins (not divorcing a vile woman, giving a loan without a witness, and a man who gave
his wealth to the foolish)
More information on Dua can be found in a book in English, a translation of Kitaab ud-Du`aa' by Shaykh
al-`Awaa'ishah (published by Jam`iat Ihyaa Minhaaj al-Sunnah), the Book of Supplications in Al-Bukhari and Riyadh us Saleheen
and Ajawab Alkafi by Imam Shams Adeen Mohamad bin AbiBakr Bin Qayem Ajawyzeyah. Jazakamullahu khairan to those who corrected
and added to the above compilation. May Allah make us of those that oft turn to Him in Dua. Ameen. |
